Marriage today is getting obsolete. Kids today are scared in a way and smart in a way to wait to get married if at all. They watch what is going on around them in this insane world and can see what he future will bring if they are not carefull. 12 yr olds pregnant, kids having kids, people divorcing in 2 weeks, both parents always out working, kids bringing up themsleves, broken homes all around, family morals and traditions shot to hell, and on and on. Who can blame someone for not getting married? Its a big risk that is not in your favor to be sucessfull unless you really work at it 24/7...the concept of marriage is beautifull done right...if not DON'T DO IT! save yourself alot of grief.

[This message has been edited by Dnj (edited 07-13-2003).]