Most of the societies that still condone arranged marriages look the other way while the man has dalliances outside of the marriage. But stone the women to death when THEY do it...

It's a man's man's man's man's world....

Hell, the US can't even ratify the ERA in the 21st century. Colored slaves might be out, but women as slaves...? Hmmmmmm....

You've come a LONG way, baby! Now fetch me my beer wink
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