I too am sorry you had to experience such a thing. This is a troubled world for sure. I would try to move to a safer location. It is not a good environment NYC.. I live in a small town in NJ.. close to PA I like it.. People treat each other better than other towns I've lived in closer to the city.. Whenever people are too close to each other instead of being closer mentally they goe further apart. We were never neant to live so close to others. Their is a need for privacy and space.. Also the other important factors mentioned about TV and the media they are working very hard to corrupt the minds of people all for material gain. This is taking it's toll on society. Although no one will admit this it is happening.. Those who make millions in the movie industry are doing it at the cost of currupting peoples minds. They simply do not care as long as they get rich.. The ultimate authority God and what he stands for is being thrown away.. For Devilish ways...which has taken the front seat in the world. That is why people don't care about each other.. I am truly sorry you experienced a tramatic thing as that..