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#123816 - 11/22/05 01:31 PM
Re: What are you really looking for?
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Senior Member
Registered: 11/17/99
Posts: 1150
Loc: netherlands
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Originally posted by DonM: I do try to think of something positive to say about the posts, or I say nothing at all. Also, if the song or genre is a type that I don't understand or appreciate I usually won't comment. To tell the truth if someone is off key or way out of time, I just don't want to take a chance hurting their feelings or making them mad. After all, it's only my opinion and while I'm almost always right, there is a small, mathematical chance that I could be wrong...NAAH! It's a good topic and good question though. I hope we get some better answers than mine! DonMI completely agree with DonM here. Like Don I choose not to comment in several cases, allthough I admit I don't listen to everything posted, sometimes I just missed it or I just had no time.. I won't comment negative on vocals anyway as I am not a good singer myselve. Fred
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#123818 - 11/22/05 02:33 PM
Re: What are you really looking for?
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Senior Member
Registered: 01/02/04
Posts: 7305
Loc: Lexington, Ky, USA
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You know, it's a real slippery slope. Some players, particularly working in clubs, restaurants, etc. are really AWFUL...bad changes, bad meter. One of the worst in this area is a friend of mine. He's a trumpet/sax player. His timing is so bad he could never find a job, until he started buying tracks. He now believes and lets everyone know he's the best jazz player in the state. He's a great guy, and has worked at a small restaurant in town for 10 years.
All the real players in the area agree he's awful, but no one will tell him, because they don't want to hurt his feelings. His boastfulness is really wearing thin.
At this point, telling him may hurt his feelings, but he would probably think such comments to be "sour grapes".
The best thing for me to do in this case is to say nothing.
Here, I don't say anything if the music presented is not outstanding, but I understand that such an attitude dosen't help anyone improve.
Like I said, it's a slippery slope.
Russ
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#123819 - 11/22/05 02:36 PM
Re: What are you really looking for?
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Registered: 04/17/01
Posts: 144
Loc: London, UK
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Thanks Cgiles for the post,
I think the same thing was going through a lot of peoples minds but no one said it.
I believe what happened here was not a result of people saying their real opinion but rather quite the opposite.
Everyone is afraid to say something negative, but in fact FEELS or THINKS negative towards the performance/person. After a while of hiding behind smiley faces etc, eventually true feelings leek out when they get strong, and that's when it gets ugly.
Much better is to try to FEEL and THINK positive as much as possible, and then to post only HONEST opinions. Sure encouragement is always good, but if there is no honesty, it wontwithstand, and we've seen that.
Rather post a piece of contructive critisism or politely disagree than to fester hatred. If you know someone has made a mistake, explain politely. That's discussion.
As to outright mean comments, they should be dismissed as irrelevant and childish (or mods will help out).
Anyone disagree please?
:-)
Zalman
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#123820 - 11/22/05 09:05 PM
Re: What are you really looking for?
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Registered: 03/20/01
Posts: 847
Loc: Nashvville TN
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One of the problems of technology. Anyone thinks they can do music now. OK not anyone. But, you don't know how many peple come up to me and want to know if they can trade CDs with me. They think that they are on equal with me because they've put out a CD too. Granted, they can't tune a guitar, they can't stay in time, and they recorded their CD using Sound recorder in their basement, but by gosh they have a CD, and they feel their product is worthy of a trade with mine. It's a little hard to tell them "I don't want to trade, you are terrible."
What's even worse is people who have spent a lot of money doing a product (even went to Nashville to record) and the studio got them in and out as quick as possible with cookie cutter arrangements that are so pro they're stale. The musicians come in, read the charts, record the album, get paid, and never put so much as an ounce of passion in the singer's project. Then it's really hard to let them know they'll never get there, after all, they know they've just recorded in Nashville!
But, if they actually bother asking me what I think, I give them as honest an opinion as I can. Things like, "you've got some good ideas here, but the song-writing structure need s a little work in these areas." or "I wish your producer had spent a little more time on your vocals. There are some issues in the harmonies in the chorus that should have been fixed." or if it's really really terrible, I pass them along to someone else in our company, LOL.
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