you don't have to say who you are.but if you don't mind,I got 3 questions if you can answer.

1.your age
2.type of music with that famous band of 90's( are you the co-founder/original line up)or session player
3.are you african-american.

then,I will know you,I guess.

It would mean so much more if we actually knew who we were dealing with. The advice would have more creditability ..... or not.
We can all teach as well as learn .... but the personal interaction is what keeps us grounded. Don't isolate yourself...this is a friendly place. You'll get just what you put into it!