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#189313 - 02/08/07 05:10 PM
Re: Anna Nicole Smith RIP
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Loc: Levittown, Pa, USA
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#189319 - 02/09/07 04:57 AM
Re: Anna Nicole Smith RIP
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Registered: 12/01/99
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Loc: Penn Yan, NY
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Ian, you are so right. I was just rethinking my post and I was coming back to post this retraction when I saw your post. I'm embarrased to have written that at this time. My feelings about the career of ANS should not have surfaced at this time. I apologize for my lack of sensitivity. I sometimes forget that I made the stupidest, most redicucous choice in MY life just 2 short years ago. No one is above anyone else, and I feel terrible about posting those very imapropriate words, at a time when sympathy was called for.
One of the best lessons I am learning as a teacher is that consequences do NOT have to be given immediatly. Sometimes, a little "cooldown" is a blessing in many ways. In the future, I will try to think a little longer before I say or do anything that may be imappropriate. I was not a fan of her career, but as a fellow human, my heart goes out to her poor little child. Her road will be very hard, and I wish her a better life than her Mother had. That's my wish for my own kids too. I hope they avoid the mistakes I made, and I hope you can all disregard my insensitive coments above. It was out of line, and I am sorry that I posted it.
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#189322 - 02/09/07 09:02 AM
Re: Anna Nicole Smith RIP
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Loc: Nashvville TN
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This board is about entertainment though? Specifically music entertainment, performance, and playing. Well, of course there are some OT posts, but I actually tend to agree with UD's first post. So a comment about her usefulness as an entertainer came up. Just because she's imfamous we need to feel a special time of devotion and sympathy for her passing? How many of us also took a moment for every other person who passed on that day. Other people, who were indeed role models, indeed virtuous citizens? And as far as her infant, I think that poor soul would be much better off in an adoptive family that loves it than to grow up in the weird environment it's currently in. And no, I don't know the gender, hence the indefinite article. As UD said, he hates to see anyone die. Well, I agree. and no, UD doesn't need me to come to his defense, and that's not what I'm doing. I'm just saying that it's so politically correct to be super-sensative about everything, and I just don't go there.
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#189323 - 02/09/07 09:03 AM
Re: Anna Nicole Smith RIP
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Registered: 11/10/00
Posts: 2195
Loc: Catskill Mountains, NY
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Kudos Uncle Dave. I've made more than my share of mistakes in life, and have been guilty of intolerance of others' lifestyles more times than I'm proud to admit.
I'm guessing I'll make some more before my journey in life is through, but hopefully I can make less of 'em and stay around long enough to figure them out and learn from the experiences. Nice to see you back. Been awhile for me too.
As for Anna... my regrets for her and her family. I've encountered enough tortured souls in my own journey and can empathize with the pain and sadness that goes with it. Did she make some poor choices for herself ? Probably.. but at times I think if we take a good look, we all can say that. As for her relevance.. It is what it is. She chose to air much of it out publicly, and for whatever the reasons, the public soaked it up.
My earliest musical hero, Syd Barrett, was himself a study in pain and questionable lifestyle choices, although it seems pretty likely that mental illness itself, whether he had abused himself or not, would have contributed to the wreckage as well.
AJ
[This message has been edited by Bluezplayer (edited 02-09-2007).]
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#189327 - 02/09/07 10:46 AM
Re: Anna Nicole Smith RIP
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Registered: 08/23/04
Posts: 2207
Loc: Dayton, OH USA
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On one hand, sure...its always sad when anyone especially that age dies so young. Until we get more info, we don't know for sure the circumstances to explain her passing.
On the other hand-What body of work did she contribute? She was a centerfold, who the world was probably laughing at, more than laughing with, over the last few years.
The question was raised what if she was your daughter?, Well, we have three of them and of course we'd love her, but what set of parents in this world or the next would have chosen the lifestyle she did? Certainly no responsible ones. Its not a reach to say that her lifestyle directly contributed to the choices her son made, who is also no longer with us. That's the sad part....
She was a trainwreck as a person, and when trainwrecks have kids-those children pay a stunningly high price through no fault of their own. Too often people seem to have children for the wrong reasons, and are ill-prepared to make the correct deciscions with regard for the kids.
As far as the surviving child, well...they will probably benefit from her financial assets and be exposed to a very different environment than they would've if she remained alive. Which, may in the long run...hopefully work out ok...
------------------ Bill in Dayton
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#189329 - 02/09/07 04:59 PM
Re: Anna Nicole Smith RIP
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Registered: 07/27/05
Posts: 10606
Loc: Cape Breton Island, Canada
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Originally posted by Mainer: Ian
I guess I really am a heartless prick at times. I just have very little tolerance for this sort stuff. I prefer to feel bad for the down & out and less fortunate souls.
Could you educate me on what the following means.
Cha d’dhùin doras nach d’fhosgail doras.
Jerry
[This message has been edited by Mainer (edited 02-09-2007).] Addiction is something I have lived through...it doesn't discriminate, it kills rich or poor, and fame is just another complication. I didn't imply that you were a heartless prick, but you were quick to judge a person you know nothing about...except from the tabloids. Perhaps I am a bit sensitive (and defensive) about addiction, having been an addict myself and experienced death up close and personal. If I insulted you...I apologize. If I made you think differently, even for one brief moment, then I feel my remark was justified. Cha d’dhùin doras nach d’fhosgail doras. No door ever closed, but another opened. Ian
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#189347 - 02/12/07 11:05 AM
Re: Anna Nicole Smith RIP
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Registered: 01/02/04
Posts: 7305
Loc: Lexington, Ky, USA
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#189368 - 02/13/07 06:31 AM
Re: Anna Nicole Smith RIP
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Registered: 08/22/04
Posts: 1457
Loc: Athens, Greece
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Originally posted by Bluezplayer: Thanks much Theodore.. It seems like it hasn't changed much here since I left though....LOL
After I left a few months ago, I still lurked a bit.. I looked in about once a week or so I guess, but the truth is my life has been pretty busy ( like most folks I would guess ).
I'm reasonably happy with my gear, what is happening for me musically, and my life in general... plus, I really haven't had anything to add to any of the recent discussions that I reckon would have been of much help to anyone, so I figured quiet was best.
Best Regards to you ( and all )
AJ
Thanks a lot AJ, I believe praise HAS to be given to members who contribute and help others, and your posts have helped me enough. On the other hand, things here are almost the same... Fran, you are right, we are pretty disrespectful. You are absolutely right. But sometimes you cannot help it. A while ago, someone here asked what to play for very old guys in a nursing home, and I responded "In the upper room". It is bad, but I just couldn't help it. I just hope that we take it for what it is, humour.
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#189372 - 02/13/07 08:28 AM
Re: Anna Nicole Smith RIP
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Registered: 10/08/00
Posts: 4715
Loc: West Virginia
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It's funny how people here are knocking A. Smith. Geez lets compare her to a woman that I KNOW many here love and that's M. Monroe. She wasn't the best singer, but good lord she was freakin HOT. She was an "entertainer". Her life was just as full of crap as A. Smith's. She had affairs, abusive men, and gee I wonder what she died of????
M. Monroe is glorified all the time. A. Smith was a modern day M. Monroe. Her death is traggic, a very young child is left without her mother (and her brother). Rather than trash the woman, respect her as a human being in that she WAS an entertainer as was M. Monroe. She made mistakes just like ALL OF US DO. Let the womans soul rest in peace. It's bad enough she was still mourning the loss of her son, then in her death her home gets robbed and many of her personal items and her daughters were taken. Which I'm sure 90% of it will show up on Ebay.
**You may not have liked Anna's lifestyle, but M. Monroe's was no different**
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#189376 - 02/13/07 04:34 PM
Re: Anna Nicole Smith RIP
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Registered: 04/25/05
Posts: 14277
Loc: NW Florida
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Originally posted by squeak_D: It's funny how people here are knocking A. Smith. Geez lets compare her to a woman that I KNOW many here love and that's M. Monroe. She wasn't the best singer, but good lord she was freakin HOT. She was an "entertainer". Her life was just as full of crap as A. Smith's. She had affairs, abusive men, and gee I wonder what she died of????
M. Monroe is glorified all the time. A. Smith was a modern day M. Monroe. Her death is traggic, a very young child is left without her mother (and her brother). Rather than trash the woman, respect her as a human being in that she WAS an entertainer as was M. Monroe. She made mistakes just like ALL OF US DO. Let the womans soul rest in peace. It's bad enough she was still mourning the loss of her son, then in her death her home gets robbed and many of her personal items and her daughters were taken. Which I'm sure 90% of it will show up on Ebay.
**You may not have liked Anna's lifestyle, but M. Monroe's was no different**
OMG..... You can't POSSIBLY compare ANS to MM. Name one film that ANS didn't suck in (pun intended!) and then watch The Misfits, or Some Like It Hot. MM's addiction was a by-product of her fame, ANS's was the REASON for it. MM had the decency to show shame for her addictions, ANS promoted hers, shamelessly. MM could act, sing and dance (and look hot doing it!), ANS could do nothing but stumble through life incoherently (and look hot only briefly). If Elton John ever writes a song about ANS, I will personally shoot him! The TRUE tragedy is that anyone in this country (or across the world) had to watch this train-wreck in the name of 'reality' entertainment.
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#189390 - 02/16/07 10:25 AM
Re: Anna Nicole Smith RIP
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