I'm a rank amateur here vs most of these guys, but I do play out a bit, mainly for something extra to do. I played in bands many years ago, but I had not been actively playing out for some time up until a few years ago. I always continued to play and occasionally work in the studio, so I am a fairly proficient keyboard player, but I never thought very much of my vocals, so I too started off just playing and singing.
Generally, I got lukewarm receptions except for the occasional musicians in the crowd who would sometimes compliment my playing ability. I'd always make sure I threw in a couple of dazzling solos and chord combos. I didn't have as much interaction skill as I needed for the rest of the crowd, and I rarely sang..
Then I got lucky. I jammed with an older guitarist / vocalist who had been a lifelong entertainer. He had always played in larger bands and played many of the popular venues in the Poconos and Catskills.
He and I never went anywhere with it, as it was mostly for fun. I had told him about my limited solo experiences. Then when we were doing a couple songs, I started singing. He asked me why in the world I wasn't singing at my gigs. I couldn't really answer except that I didn't think I was proficient enough at it. I learned a few other things from this gentleman, and ever since my interaction skills have shown steady improvement.
I get positive feedback and generally good vibes now, and I don't feel the need to include that "blazing" solo, even though it is fun to do anyway. Mostly, have fun, be confident ( not cocky ) and show it. It's infectious. Example... Right in the beginning of "Born In the USA", My music sheet fell down. For a split second, I panicked.. then.. I just kept on going, making up words as I went along.. ala "Weird Al" . I think that was the biggest hit of the night, and more than a few did not believe it wasn't planned. It was the right audience and luckily a good moment for it. I didn't plan that at all, but long before it happened, I did tell myself that this is what I would do if that happened ( I'm fairly decent at making up stuff in the moment, and I've practiced doing it a bit ).
While my vocal range is somewhat limited, I've learned to stay within it's range, and it works for me.
I think it is very good that you are meeting with a vocal teacher. This is someone who can help work on building up your strengths, and who won't be afraid to tell you the truth. Even if you ultimately don't wind up singing, you never know what other helpful suggestions you might get.
I would also suggest reworking that demo. Craft it well, as it could be a positive marketing tool, but it also can hurt you if it isn't received well.
AJ
[This message has been edited by Bluezplayer (edited 07-12-2005).]
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