Originally posted by Dnj:
Thank you there is not enough of it here on the SZ. NOT being honest actually makes things worse not better. There are tempo standards in professional ballroom dancing & they must be adhered to.
http://www.dancemetonight.com/dc_tempos1.htm
[This message has been edited by Dnj (edited 05-16-2009).]You just can't help yourself, can you?
Do you not read what I write? I'm not playing for professional ballroom dancers. I'm not hired for ballroom competitions. I'm playing for mostly dances that cater to crowds aged 50+, where the older attendees often just gently, slowly stroll around the floor with each other. Its sweet. Its romantic. Its great...
The local ballroom groups do have desired tempos, which when communicated to us, we provide. Are these groups professional? I doubt they're sponsored or competing in competitions, but I don't really know.
Honest to god, man...stop it with the "THIS is how XXXX must be...ANYTHING else is wrong!" crap...
You have a high knowledge level, you've got gobs of experience and plenty of talent. NO one, least of all me, questions that.
All due respect, do you have a clue how you come across to others who aren't from your neck of the woods?
Let me add this. So help me if you respond with something like, "Well, its clear to me some people really don't want honesty" or delete your posts in this thread, so help me I will drive to your house and hit you with my L1...(Just kidding!)
Jeez!
(I've hijacked my own thread, unreal!)
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Bill in Dayton
[This message has been edited by Bill in Dayton (edited 05-16-2009).]