*Sigh*
Ok, I'll make this as easy as possible for you Diki.
I'm asking for the reasons why (or more to the point, for Russ to ask himself the reasons why) he would, out of the blue, comment about how he wouldn't do the gig, and didn't like everything about it - from the music to the paricipants at said gig:
".....but I don't see why you had to go out of your way to comment about how you would turn down the job and express your dislike for the Music, the Dance style AND the PEOPLE(!) who do the dance."
A secondary point (and a minor disclaimer) beginning with:
"I realise threads have off-topic comments in them (I'm *ahem* guilty of posting those myself occasionally... )"
(the aforementioned Secondary Point)
"...I don't see why you have to remind us (again) that you "don't do Buffet" and whether you mean it or not, it comes across as you looking down on those of us who do."
Again, a heartfelt disclaimer:
"I'm not trying to start something here - it's a genuine observation"
Again the heart of the matter:
"...and I wonder if you've thought about the reasons why you post this particular opinion time and again."
and the heart of the matter explained more succintly in my next post:
"...what I'm getting at in a (hopefully) polite and genuinely curious way is WHY Russ felt he needed to comment at all in this thread (for example) as to what he would do with the gig in the first place."
A disclaimer:
"It's obviously not his bag as he said (and I'm fine with that - really)"
AGAIN the heart of the matter:
"it's just I guess I don't see why he needs to share that attitude in a thread that never called for it."
Also a justification for my post(s):
"I was also surprised he went on (when asked, to be fair) about how he not only didn't like the music/dance but even the people."
And a Final disclaimer:
"Maybe I'm going too "deep" for this thread...lol"
Dicki, to be picky, (Ha! That rhymes!) I never said we actualy did Buffett (Jimmy is a principally American Phenom, and if you walked up to the average person in Australia and asked them who he is, or to name a song, they would struggle to say the least - Margaritaville is the ONLY widely known hit he ever had here) but I know what you mean - Linedancing/Country/laid back stuff, which we play.
However - we DO play Rap/Techno/RnB and Top 40 gigs when it's required, and I seem to remember Russ covered his dislike for such gigs in previous threads (perhaps in a more blanket manner), but I believe in those posts it was entirely appropriate - in that, that was the discussion point of the thread.
So you see, the original poster in this thread could've asked for appropriate break music for ANY music (Rap or Techno if you like, Bolivian Folk music if you insist
) and I STILL would've been curious as to why Russ didn't want to play a Bolivian Folk Music gig, or why he didn't like the associated dance style (whatever THAT would be) or the people who dance it.