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#276634 - 11/24/09 06:09 AM
Re: Adam Lambert-WTF???
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I hope there is room on this board for another opinion. Do I think that Adam Lambert's performance was in good taste? No, but no worse than hundreds of others that have made it to broadcast tv. And why do things seem so much worse if they're on broadcast tv as opposed to cable/satellite. Most households these days have cable/sat and there is no shortage of shows with full frontal nudity and language that would make a sailor blush.
It just seems to me that the older we get, the more moralistic we get. There is nobody more self-righteous and judgemental that an old man. How soon we forget our own youthful indiscretions. How many of you would be saying the same things if you were 25 (and leading the life of an active musician)? And PLEEEZZZE, don't bring up the 'children watching' thing. I might just throw up. It's not going to harm them any more than it harmed us, probably less since they're growing up in a more informed and enlightened society (would YOUR generation have elected a Barack Obama - forget about how you think he's doing, would it have even been possible with the people from your (our) generation?). Like Nedim, I don't want to turn this into a political discussion or even an essay on morality, but every time I see a bunch of old men lashing out in righteous indignation at some minor BS, my first thought always is, sheeesh, get a life.
JMO, of course (just like yours was just yours).
chas
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#276635 - 11/24/09 06:41 AM
Re: Adam Lambert-WTF???
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Although I was a bit (an understatement, if there ever was one) of a wild child when I was playing back in my 20's (not the 20's like Chas ), I still think this guy's an idiot (JMO)...but, if someone wants to perform in that manner, they can fill their hat, or their crotch, or whatever...I really don't care. I'm kinda glad I don't watch any television....I'm certainly not missing anything. Ian (still a full member and staunch supporter of the CSONC...Canuck Society of Non-Curmudgeons).
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#276636 - 11/24/09 06:47 AM
Re: Adam Lambert-WTF???
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Registered: 08/23/04
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Reasonable, interesting comments, Chas...
I'm 49 and don't think of myself as an old man. However, I don't look at things as I did when I was 25, I was a working musician on the road at the time. Married, 3 kids, a mortgage, own my own business, etc, LOTS of things are different...
Broadcast tv standards are different than cable channels because of the funding involved, for the most part.
------------------ Bill in Dayton
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#276639 - 11/24/09 09:03 AM
Re: Adam Lambert-WTF???
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Nobody wanted to turn this into a political/morality discussion, but it seems that is what has happened ... chas ... you are right, and I am not "trashing" your post - we WOULD look at this totally different if we were 25 years old ... and I think that is the point ... while the pop music industry is most likely mainly supported by people under the age of 25 (although for the teeny boppers, the MONEY comes from people OVER the age of 25), the producers and sponsors of this show are are also over the age of 25 ... shouldn't 'responsible' adults be trying to set standards that are higher than this? ... And unfortunately, our "more informed and enlightened society", more and more shows frightening evidence of the lack of respect and regard for 'what others may think or feel' about an issue, and even for life itself ... As for THIS old man, "getting a life" means that my last days on this Earth will be spent trying to help teach my grandchildren that the DRIVEL they see on TV - even on so called 'children's stations'- is NOT representative af a good, moral society ... JMHOt. PS ... while you " chose not to point out that some might consider your use of the 'net symbol 'WTF' in your post title, the literary equivalent of Adam Lamberts musical 'expressiveness', you then DID ... Besides, what does WTF mean?!?!? ... Just saying... ... t.
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#276640 - 11/24/09 09:04 AM
Re: Adam Lambert-WTF???
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Originally posted by cgiles: First, let me thank you Bill, for not trashing my response to your post. We share the same sense of fairness, which is why I chose not to point out that some might consider your use of the 'net symbol 'WTF' in your post title, the literary equivalent of Adam Lamberts musical 'expressiveness'.
Just saying........ .
chasI would humbly suggest that its a question of degree. I intentionally used an abbreviation that would capture my emotion towards this while masking the overt crassness of actually typing out the phrase. It wasn't my intention to offend anyone. Whereas I showed some degree of restraint, I don't think Lambert did. If someone thinks he did show restraint then that is a place I don't want to go, lol... Perhaps Lambert "didn't intend to offend" anyone either, but that's where awareness or common sense comes into play. Clearly, some were very offended by his actions. I'm not sure if I was actually offended. I didn't like it. I don't respect him for it...But, I didn't take it personally, either... ------------------ Bill in Dayton [This message has been edited by Bill in Dayton (edited 11-24-2009).]
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#276641 - 11/24/09 11:26 AM
Re: Adam Lambert-WTF???
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Originally posted by tony mads usa: PS ... while you "chose not to point out that some might consider your use of the 'net symbol 'WTF' in your post title, the literary equivalent of Adam Lamberts musical 'expressiveness', you then DID ... Of course I did, Tony. That was the point. It's called 'tongue in cheek'. Sorry you missed it. BTW, 'WTF' is a slightly cruder version of 'What The Heck'. Originally posted by tony mads usa:
As for THIS old man, "getting a life" means that my last days on this Earth will be spent trying to help teach my grandchildren that the DRIVEL they see on TV - even on so called 'children's stations'- is NOT representative af a good, moral society ... I'm guessing the Taliban has a similar point of view and is equally adamant about the 'rightness' of it. The point is, our values are exactly that, OUR values. The problems always arise when we try to impose them on someone else. At what point did it become a God-given right for us to do that? As for me, I always tried to make my children aware of the effect that their actions had on other people, question how they would feel if they were in the other persons position, and then decide (for themselves) whether something was right or wrong. I'm probably biased but I think they turned out pretty well. Also, I was probably less offended than you guys because I was focusing on J-lo's butt rather than Adam's crotch. Works for me. chas
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#276643 - 11/24/09 01:13 PM
Re: Adam Lambert-WTF???
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Registered: 01/16/02
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chas ... first let me say that I did not think the Taliban reference was necessary ... But you talk about 'our' values as being each individual's own ... shouldn't we - you, me, all of us, - have some standard of what is acceptable and what is not whether it be on tv or in any other public forum ... I don't think it's a "God given right" to set standards, I think it is a God given RESPONSIBILITY !!! ... without standards what are we? ... without standards, why is it not right for me to steal someone else's property, or to bring it to the extreme, take someone else's life, if that is what I think is right? And I have no doubt that your children have turned out pretty well ... but with the moral decay in this country due in large part to the lowering of standards, it just becomes more and more difficult for parents to fend off the barrage of bad influences put forth by radio, tv, and the internet ... t. PS: "Of course I did, Tony. That was the point. It's called 'tongue in cheek'. Sorry you missed it. BTW, 'WTF' is a slightly cruder version of 'What The Heck'."don't worry, I didn't miss it ... and uh, thanks for the clarification... ... t.
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#276646 - 11/24/09 02:09 PM
Re: Adam Lambert-WTF???
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Registered: 01/02/04
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Loc: Lexington, Ky, USA
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Absolutely, NOT, Tony. I enjoy everything YOU contribute. BTW, I thought Adam was miles ahead in the talent department, "quirks" and all.
My point in even posting a reply was, sometimes, the most well thought-out response generates reactions which don't indicate that it is worth taking a controversial or alternate stand. And thats a shame, but admirable, when someone takes the time and risk.
Certainly did not intend to imply I was talking about you in any way.
Sorry for the confusion...got a gig to get to!
Russ
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#276648 - 11/24/09 02:25 PM
Re: Adam Lambert-WTF???
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Originally posted by Bill in Dayton: I intentionally used an abbreviation that would capture my emotion towards this while masking the overt crassness of actually typing out the phrase.
Bill, Bill, Bill. I'm not picking on you, because I know (from previous posts) that you're not a bad guy, but c'mon. Do you really believe that you're 'masking' anything? I don't know about anybody else but when I (and I believe, any other net-savvy person) see the expression 'WTF' in a post, I'm not thinking 'W' 'T' 'F', I'm thinking, 'What the F***'. It's not that I have a problem with it, I'm just saying, let's call it what it is. Hey, I only mentioned it in the first place because of the irony of using an 'objectionable' phrase to call attention to someone else's 'objectionable' behavior. You DO see the irony, right? Tony, you know I 'luv you man', but are you implying that just saying the word, Taliban' is somehow wrong? Even on this rather conservative board, that's a little extreme, don't you think? Fran, as for my being American, all I can say is 'two tours, honorable discharge, and a lineage dating back to 1619'. How about you? BTW, glad to see you comfortably settling back in with the same old bull.... It's nice to know that when some of our 'discussions' start to become too intellectual, there's someone to bring a sense of balance. I guess it must be a real chore having to put up your own posts these days. On a lighter note, how 'bout them Eagles (not that they're actually going anywhere). Talk to you soon, when I come up to visit. Our lunch date is still on, right. chas
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#276663 - 11/24/09 04:48 PM
Re: Adam Lambert-WTF???
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Originally posted by tony mads usa: I don't think it's a "God given right" to set standards, I think it is a God given RESPONSIBILITY !!! ... without standards what are we? ... without standards, why is it not right for me to steal someone else's property, or to bring it to the extreme, take someone else's life, if that is what [b]I think is right? ....but with the moral decay in this country due in large part to the lowering of standards t. [/B] ....steal someone else's property? ....take someone's life? ....moral decay? I'll tell you what I think 'moral decay' is. Effectively committing genocide on an entire population of Native Americans. Kidnapping and then enslaving ten generations of Africans in this country. Burning women at the stake (in Salem, Mass.)in the name of religion. Dropping a nuclear bomb on hundreds of thousands of civilians....twice. Invading (and destroying) a country that had neither attacked nor threatened to attack us, killing thousands of civilians in the process. Polluting our planet to the point of causing the extinction of hundreds of species a year and making it less and less habitable. If we care about our children so much, shouldn't we be concerned about that? I'd say we had a long history of 'moral decay' which continues to this day. But it's much more comfortable to ignore issues like these and save our real moral outrage for some guy (Adam who?) grabbing his crotch on public tv (God save us). I know you're all good guys that mean well but I question whether it's worth all your energy. You know what. Go help build a house with Habitat for Humanity, volunteer in some soup kitchen or homeless shelter. The VERY BEST way to teach your kids or grandkids, BY EXAMPLE. chas
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#276665 - 11/24/09 04:57 PM
Re: Adam Lambert-WTF???
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Registered: 07/27/05
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Loc: Cape Breton Island, Canada
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Originally posted by cgiles: ....steal someone else's property?
....take someone's life?
....moral decay?
I'll tell you what I think 'moral decay' is.
Effectively committing genocide on an entire population of Native Americans.
Kidnapping and then enslaving ten generations of Africans in this country.
Burning women at the stake (in Salem, Mass.)in the name of religion.
Dropping a nuclear bomb on hundreds of thousands of civilians....twice.
Invading (and destroying) a country that had neither attacked nor threatened to attack us, killing thousands of civilians in the process.
Polluting our planet to the point of causing the extinction of hundreds of species a year and making it less and less habitable. If we care about our children so much, shouldn't we be concerned about that?
I'd say we had a long history of 'moral decay' which continues to this day. But it's much more comfortable to ignore issues like these and save our real moral outrage for some guy (Adam who?) grabbing his crotch on public tv (God save us).
I know you're all good guys that mean well but I question whether it's worth all your energy. You know what. Go help build a house with Habitat for Humanity, volunteer in some soup kitchen or homeless shelter. The VERY BEST way to teach your kids or grandkids, BY EXAMPLE.
chas Well said, Chas...my sentiments are much the same. Ian
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