You have to understand that reasonable people can agree to disagree...
I don't think that someone disrespects me, simply because they don't agree with me. The only time I ever feel like that is when they flame me
personally, presumably because they are too ignorant to express their opinion about the issue in a coherent manner or don't understand that nobody is obliged to agree with them
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We've all just got to develop some detachment, and understand that someone completely unimpressed with our arranger/PA/demo doesn't mean someone completely unimpressed with US
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They care enough to post, that's for sure!
No-one is dissing your gran-kids, here. Just holding different points of view about an arranger. You REALLY so emotionally invested in that?
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You want to find a forum with NO disagreements on it? I would try the American Apathy Society's forum. If they bother to put one up...
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(or, apparently, if you sign up for it, they ban you, for not being really into apathy!)
No apathy here, and that's why I love it!
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