Okay guys....listen up....Listen to the guy that has hired and worked with the most talented , attractive , girls in the business..
I will tell you the How, why , and when of the subject..
First off, don't listen to any of the above guys that rather work by themselves....they have not experienced what I have
There are talented "young " ladies that want to break into the business...all over the place..
You have to open your mouth and ask!!!..If there is someone that could be a good prospective partner on stage...Speak up...
I have found great "potential" singers that turned into "stars"
And the fun of auditioning prospects...is easily better than watch American Idol on TV
For the most part, I have found young ladies that wanted to work with "me"....via friends in the business...people like Uncle Dave (who chooses to work by himself)....
I have broke in Bar tenders, and waitresses, that worked in the clubs I played....
I worked with "girl singers" for nearly 30 years, and by far, my most enjoyable on stage memories are with these girls...
Look for earnest, girls, that are excited about working with you...I use to have so many "new girls" asking about "How to get started"..when I worked with the Michaels (Mychaels) girls...They were great together, and draw-ed so much attention, that other girls envied what they did....This was a time I gave the bartender "Denise" a chance to work with me..side by side with Andrea Mychaels and Debra Mychaels.....she went on to be successful with many other bands...
Don't be afraid to set some standards ..even if they seam superficial..."Looks" is as important on stage as the vocal ability.....don't dismiss this as chauvinistic...How many homely girls do you know that are successful as singers on stage.....?....neither do I..
Talent can be taught and improved...most of the time..it is just inexperience...."Looks" are hard to develop when it comes to stage presence..
Ask yourself "why" you want to work with a "girl"....Are you interested in improving your song material, adding female songs? Are you trying to improve your stage image?, Are you trying to improve your demand in the business"..Are you looking to have more "fun" on stage? Are you interested in developing an interaction on stage..that is infectious to the audience..
All of these are the benefits you can have with the "right" partner...
Over the years I have had the cutest, most talented young ladies (dozens)..they can be found, just open your eyes, and don't be afraid to reach for the moon....Ask the pretty girl sitting in your audience, if she "sings"...you may just find a gem...I have....over and over..
On the "don't" list.....stay away from those ..you just want to hook up with...Stay away from those that already have baggage...drink to much, drugs, evident active sex life...hanging with low lifes...you get what I mean...
If there is a husband or boyfriend...make sure there is not a jealousy issue...both the "girl" and your own spouse...Flirting and interaction on stage is a "must"...you are in the "show" business...and if you want to build your following...this will aid the results..largely..
Remember you are sharing the stage, whoever you work with ...be honest with them...don't play money games etc with them...Be up front with the money they will receive....You can and should continue to make the decisions on the business end...but don't forget to consult your stage partner...
One of the most important things in this business..."Don't burn your bridges"...and that goes for the people you share stages with.....Great re-pore with the people you have surround you...will be a lasting virtue...