Scott, I can't say I'll send prayers (as I am an agnostic) and I can't send money (I know you are aware of my situation) but knowing how the USA health care works, it does sound like you have a much greater need of the latter than the former.
I truly wish I could help, as I have been down that same path several years ago.
My sincere apologies for not being able to be of any practical support, and my very heartfelt wishes for Jen to make a full recovery...so sorry I can't give more.
Your friend always,
Ian
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