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#371621 - 09/05/13 05:49 AM
Re: The ultimate solution to a current bottleneck?
[Re: keybplayer]
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Registered: 04/25/05
Posts: 14266
Loc: NW Florida
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If you choose to post your work online, what the hell do you think it is up there for? So everyone can pat you on the back and tell you what a great fella you are? If that were true, that would be an even more damning condemnation of the act...
The truth is, anyone that posts ANYTHING on the web opens themselves to criticism AND praise. In fact, to perform for anyone other than simply yourself is to invite them both. Mind you, if you are honest about your own playing, even playing alone doesn't insulate yourself from criticism! It's how we get better.
Now, that doesn't mean that all criticism is valid (nor is all praise!), and everyone is free to make their own minds up about a performance, whether for good or bad. And everyone ELSE is free to decide if they agree with the opinion offered, whether good or bad. But basically, if you offer yourself up on the web for all to see, you ARE going to get both. Only a fool would think that everyone is going to love what you do, and only a fool would think that, just because they MIGHT have put it up just as a bit of fun, that insulates it from critical judgement.
If you don't want criticism, better not post anything, ever! But then you also end up not getting praised, either. Nothing ventured, nothing gained...
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#371649 - 09/05/13 07:59 PM
Re: The ultimate solution to a current bottleneck?
[Re: keybplayer]
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Registered: 10/23/06
Posts: 1661
Loc: USA
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I really didn't post my remarks to be mean-spirited. My intention was to help make newbie keyboard players aware that what you see is not always what it appears to be. Hopefully keep them from getting unnecessarily discouraged like I did.
In my early years, I was "intimidated" by so many players I encountered who seemed to be world-class....then came the Internet and it got even more confusing. Many will portray themselves off as "fully-developed" musicians anxious to get a slice of the adulation pie! Presto, zippo....make a video with your I-phone, put it on Youtube and proudly show it to family, neighbors, friends, co-workers, your dog, etc
I still have to remind myself, when I watch someone on a video, that maybe the song/songs this person plays were the only 6 songs he knows and plays them daily, morning, noon and night, and once more before he goes to bed! But the performer forgot to mention that.
Honestly, if I were just starting out today playing an instrument, I'd take one look at all these deceptive video's and maybe pack it in and switch careers. There should be qualifiers that go with all these Youtube shots. In Tommy's case it would be something like: "Don't get discouraged by what you hear....keep in mind this is my own style, I practice everything this way, and I can't play in any other key but C.
Reference....this trend to praise everyone who posts a demo, not just here but other groups too. I never understood why everyone feels obligated to dish out those remarks: "great job" "thanks for posting this" "keep 'em coming," etc. Many I think truly deserve such remarks, but there are just as many who should be advised they are not quite up to snuff and to go back to the drawing boards!
When I was learning (and playing out), I couldn't give two hoots about positive comments. I went out of my way to ask friends, audience members, even the club owners NOT what was right about my performance, but what was WRONG....what could I improve on, did I make obvious mistakes, how is my own personal style coming across to the audience, can you think of other songs I should be playing, OR.....songs I should NOT be playing, etc? And I used the feedback to get progressively better.
Now, if everyone is "good" then there is no "bad" to benchmark it against. "Good" becomes meaningless because it exists in a vacuum by itself. It's like "beautiful" and "ugly." How can "beautiful" exist if there is no "ugly" to compare it with.
I think anyone who is good, just knows by instinct they are "good!" Why would you need to hear it again from someone else?
But...I have to say, I do admire those folks who do dish out the compliments. I think they are genuinely caring people out to encourage others (who they recognize NEED encouragement)!
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#371652 - 09/05/13 09:50 PM
Re: The ultimate solution to a current bottleneck?
[Re: keybplayer]
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Registered: 04/25/05
Posts: 14266
Loc: NW Florida
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Very true words, Mark.
I have always been one of the 'What do I need to do to get better?' kind of guys, too. I didn't really ever need much in the way of encouragement, the music itself always drove me, and it was easy to spot what my strengths were. A lot harder to spot your own weaknesses, though!
I've always learned more from having something ripped than having kudos for it.
Overall, I find continually taping yourself, and taking the time to LISTEN to it, critically, is probably the best feedback. In the end, whether it's what everyone else expects or not, musically, what I'm playing is a deliberate decision. But while you are playing, you never quite get the chance to be pure critic. But later, it's usually easy to spot whether your vision worked or not. But there have been many times I've ripped myself on the spot, only to listen to playback and go 'Well, wasn't quite what I thought was coming, but it actually worked!' and cut myself a bit more slack next time!
But no-one ever got better from continually being told how great they were... It's the brickbats that do the most good, not the kudos.
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An arranger is just a tool. What matters is what you build with it..!
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