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#427953 - 01/20/17 06:28 AM
So your learning to play Piano also?...
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#428009 - 01/21/17 06:33 AM
Re: So your learning to play Piano also?...
[Re: abacus]
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I agree. Encouragement is one thing, but coercion is quite another.
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#428012 - 01/21/17 09:27 AM
Re: So your learning to play Piano also?...
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Bill, when I look at Michael Jackson and others like him who were 'deprived' of their childhood (as they most certainly were), I tend to weigh the negative effects on their lives against the gifts they gave to society. The point is, I think you could make a case for either approach to the parenting of truly exceptional children. These are not 'ordinary' children who were merely trained into extraordinary feats; these are children who were born with extraordinary 'gifts', there to be developed and encouraged OR abandoned in favor of a 'normal' childhood. Some might argue that a reasonable blend of the two approaches is the answer but then, that might not produce the 'best that you can be' individual projected in that enormous potential.
The reality is that many other factors also come into the play; the stability of the family unit, the personality of the child in question, the motivies of the parents, etc., etc. In the end, it's the parents decision (in the early stages) and whether we approve or disapprove is immaterial.
Just thinking aloud.
chas
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#428013 - 01/21/17 10:34 AM
Re: So your learning to play Piano also?...
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I agree with Chas on this issue. My son recently remarried, and we inherited three beautiful grand daughters. The lady he married is Korean, her children were all born in this country, and they are incredibly talented and intelligent young ladies, the oldest of which is 24 and currently in London getting her Doctorate, while the middle child is 21 and in NYU near the end of her Masters degree. The youngest, just 17, left for Boston where she began her first year of college on a full scholarship. All of the girls have mastered at least one musical instrument, yet they also enjoy spending time with their newly acquired families cruising the waters of Chesapeake Bay, hiking, or just shooting some hoops in the driveway. All three girls, and their mom, are very disciplined, and all have a 4.0 GPA. Today, I feel like I am the luckiest person in the entire world. All the best, Gary
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#428019 - 01/21/17 01:32 PM
Re: So your learning to play Piano also?...
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Good to be breathing again, 124. Thought I had bought the farm for a while there, and came damned close. Guess I managed to dodge the big bullet again. Thanks everyone, Gary
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