I'm taking it easy here.
The person I'm trying to help is in his late 30's, maybe early 40's. At that stage of the game, when I was his age, there wasn't anyone who knew more about music to help me out.
I'm guessing he feel's like I did. He would like to be the teacher/innovator...but here's the thing....
I've been where he has been and more...so I have to be careful not to overtake his position.
For example...perhaps a strange one.
Back in the late 60's, my dad asked me what I wanted to do. I said "fly helicopter's". I even had gone through ground school. He was, like his three brothers, shot up in WWII.
Thimg is he wanted me to go to college. He didn't have the chance. So that's what I did; not joining a helicopter unit until many years more...as a crew chief...not as a pilot.
So, the moral of the story is that I don't want to impose. The younger generation needs resources/guidance when they want it.
Not to take over.