Marck, I would not offer my entire night's performance to anyone for any price. If your intent is to offer portions of the service or event as a keepsake, then I would be selective of what I give them. To make a recording of a wedding service is one thing, but to provide 3 hours of dinner music makes me wonder.
Also, any type of video recorder would give you some decent quality sound, with or without video. I think your cassette idea is good enough for this first try. you could attach the RCA line outs from your amp directly to the cassette to reduce room noise. Good luck.