Yes, Jim... I've been bumping my head against this problem for a while. I'd REALLY like to be able to combine Roland and Yamaha arrangers, but Yamaha seem to be designed to be things unto themselves, rather than team players.
There are a LOT of things that you can't do by using MIDI on a Yamaha arranger - codes for variation and fill changes don't get sent or received, you can't send certain Parts on MIDI and certain Parts played by the Internal voices, there's no easy way (short of sending a registration change) to get a voice with it's effects...
On the whole, it seems more trouble than it's worth to try to Link them into one über-arranger (not that Roland make it MUCH easier, but some of the basic arranger operation CAN be done remotely). It's a shame, as I think that the combination of Roland/Yamaha would balance each other nicely. One's strengths is the other's weaknesses.
Oh well....