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#233229 - 04/25/08 09:45 PM
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Loc: San Tan Valley, AZ
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Thanks for the great link Donny, Diki, I'd sure love to hear your stuff someday. Maybe you could give lessons here and give all registered users a discount. Why do you take that word "cheaters" that I posted about, re-explained and even emailed you personally to clarify and continue to bust beans over it? You should start your own forum and have your fanclub join. The three of you could have a great time together. Your nothing but a pompus "Pain in the Butt" Sorry Guys, I had to open my mouth. ------------------ God Bless, Mikey www.mikeymaestro.comwww.myspace.com/kidconcert www.balloonanimal.comwww.1000colorcards.com
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#233231 - 04/26/08 02:47 AM
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Registered: 04/25/05
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Loc: NW Florida
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Success means being called a jerk by the very people I am quoting (or paraphrasing )... Maybe if these attitudes upset you, you might not bring them up yourselves. Look, I didn't make up ONE of those quotes. A little exaggeration, sure, but in essence, everything there HAS been a point one of YOU have made. Maybe it just sounds snarkier if I say it. But when you say it, who's being the jerk then? Maybe it IS cool to put down working with other musicians... (but if I did it, I would be elitist, eh?) Maybe it IS cool to rub everyone's face in how many gigs you do... (but I guess if I did it, I would be a braggart, eh?) BTW, WHERE the gigs were wasn't the point. I've no problem with the venue or the audience, or the people that play them. But maybe crowing about the number played, rather than talking about the MUSIC, might go up my chute sideways, too... Maybe it IS cool to ridicule equipment that is heavier than a flyweight toy (but if I did it, I would be a weakling?) Maybe it IS cool to not play while your MP3 carries you (but if I did that, would I be 'cheating'?) BTW, Beaky, this wasn't aimed at you. That 'cheating' thread has been re-hashed here SO many times, trust me, you are only the last in a LONG line of members that keep bringing it up. It always gets the same responses, too Maybe it IS cool to not have to learn to play (but if I did that, I wouldn't be here!) Yes, my post was absurd and a bit mean... and so are all those attitudes. So, who's the jerk? Me for saying them, or some others for HAVING them? Success is being pilloried for showing SOME folk a reflection of themselves (even if it was a fun-house mirror )....
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#233232 - 04/26/08 03:17 AM
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Registered: 09/21/02
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Loc: Port Charlotte,FL,USA
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I think everyone should have seen this was a "tongue in cheek" reply.
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#233233 - 04/26/08 06:48 AM
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Registered: 12/01/99
Posts: 12800
Loc: Penn Yan, NY
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Found this gem on Victor Wooten's site. It's great to reflect on when mean spirted words seem easier to say than nothing at all:
The Test of Three
In ancient Greece, Socrates (469 - 399 BC) was widely lauded for his wisdom.
One day the great philosopher came upon an acquaintance who ran up to him excitedly and said, "Socrates, do you know what I just heard about one of your students?"
"Wait a moment," Socrates replied. "Before you tell me I'd like you to pass a little test. It's called the Test of Three."
"Three?"
"That's right, Socrates continued. "Before you talk to me about my student let's take a moment to test what you're going to say. The first test is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?"
No," the man said, "actually I just heard about it." "All right," said Socrates. "So you don't really know if it's true or not.
Now let's try the second test, the test of Goodness. Is what you are about to tell me about my student something good?"
"No, on the contrary..."
"So," Socrates continued, "you want to tell me something bad about him even though you're not certain it's true?"
The man shrugged, a little embarrassed.
Socrates continued. "You may still pass though, because there is a third test - the filter of Usefulness. Is what you want to tell me about my student going to be useful to me?"
No, not really..."
"Well," concluded Socrates, "if what you want to tell me is neither True nor Good nor even Useful, why tell it to me at all?"
The man was defeated and ashamed.
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#233238 - 04/26/08 10:03 AM
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Registered: 03/04/06
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I just slapped myself in the face for thinking, at one time, this group consisted of one big happy, family. Funny how the penny drops one day. Still I get a lot out of reading these posts, but I’m starting to understand that musicians are a unique breed no matter where you find them.
BTW: I thought most of these responses were good (and sincere), but my vote, if it's alright with Simon Cowell, goes to Dan01 for the following:
“When I play at Church, success to me is the emotion felt by my congregation, by the music I provide.”
“When I play out, success is knowing I did my best to provide the best possible show I could.”
“When I create music, success is knowing I put my best creative thoughts, with the tools I have to create the final long and recording.”
It would be nice if we could remember we were given our talent from our Higher Power for a reason. That reason was NOT to bicker over who’s a pro, who’s NOT a pro, is 76 keys better than 61 keys but only 7/8 of 88 keys, who wants or doesn’t want to post their music, who has a legit musical track record, who’s a newbie on the Zone and not entitled to express an opinion, etc.
That reason was going out and making those who were NOT given the talent happy with what we WERE given. Sometimes I need to step back and look at how blessed I was to go through life with the ability to make music. I think many of us, INCLUDING myself, and particularly those who have played all their lives tend to sometimes fall into the “take it for granted” trap.
What do you think?
Lucky
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#233240 - 04/26/08 10:40 AM
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Registered: 07/27/05
Posts: 10606
Loc: Cape Breton Island, Canada
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Originally posted by Lucky2Bhere: I just slapped myself in the face for thinking, at one time, this group consisted of one big happy, family. Your half right, Lucky...it is a family...but, like most families, it's dysfunctional. And, you're right...it is easy to forget how lucky we are...but isn't that basic human nature? We all need to be reminded. At times our own light goes out and it's nice to have it re-lit by a spark from another person. All most of us on this forum want is to be appreciated for what we do...pretty simple, eh? Ian
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#233241 - 04/26/08 10:48 AM
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Registered: 01/16/02
Posts: 14376
Loc: East Greenwich RI USA
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Originally posted by Lucky2Bhere: I just slapped myself in the face for thinking, at one time, this group consisted of one big happy, family. Funny how the penny drops one day. Still I get a lot out of reading these posts, but I’m starting to understand that musicians are a unique breed o matter where you find them.
BTW: I thought most of these responses were good (and sincere), but my vote, if it's alright with Simon Cowell, goes to Dan01 for the following:
“When I play at Church, success to me is the emotion felt by my congregation, by the music I provide.”
“When I play out, success is knowing I did my best to provide the best possible show I could.”
“When I create music, success is knowing I put my best creative thoughts, with the tools I have to create the final long and recording.”
It would be nice if we could remember we were given our talent from our Higher Power for a reason. That reason was NOT to bicker over who’s a pro, who’s NOT a pro, is 76 keys better than 61 keys but only 7/8 of 88 keys, who wants or doesn’t want to post their music, who has a legit musical track record, who’s a newbie on the Zone and not entitled to express an opinion, etc.
That reason was going out and making those who were NOT given the talent happy with what we WERE given. Sometimes I need to step back and look at how blessed I was to go through life with the ability to make music. I think many of us, INCLUDING myself, and particularly those who have played all their lives tend to sometimes fall into the “take it for granted” trap. What do you think? Lucky
OF COURSE, we are one, big, happy, family ... and what family doesn't have some nonsensical bickering from time to time ?!? ... t.
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#233242 - 04/26/08 02:35 PM
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Registered: 04/25/05
Posts: 14318
Loc: NW Florida
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For those I've TRULY offended, I am sorry. Yes, a few 'got it' and many didn't. That's my fault for having an underdeveloped skill with smileys (where DOES Ian get all those cool ones?) I don't want to rehash old news, nor open new wounds, so I'll be brief. To take the topic more seriously (from the initial post, I was under the impression this might be a lighthearted thread, my mistake!), let me say I already consider myself, and anyone who loves music, and music making successful. Many's the member here who now plays full time, and few look at previous occupations with as much love. THAT's success. Success for me will be keeling over and passing on in the middle of a great tune! It might not be much fun for the audience, but 'apres moi, le deluge'! But, if I linger a while, on my deathbed, my fondest memories will probably be of the great musicians I have had the privilege of playing with, and NOT what my favorite arranger was... Heck, from some of these posts, it probably can't come soon enough for some
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#233243 - 04/26/08 03:31 PM
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Registered: 01/31/01
Posts: 3602
Loc: Maryland
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Originally posted by Lucky2Bhere: I just slapped myself in the face for thinking, at one time, this group consisted of one big happy, family. Funny how the penny drops one day. Still I get a lot out of reading these posts, but I’m starting to understand that musicians are a unique breed no matter where you find them.
BTW: I thought most of these responses were good (and sincere), but my vote, if it's alright with Simon Cowell, goes to Dan01 for the following:
“When I play at Church, success to me is the emotion felt by my congregation, by the music I provide.”
“When I play out, success is knowing I did my best to provide the best possible show I could.”
“When I create music, success is knowing I put my best creative thoughts, with the tools I have to create the final long and recording.”
It would be nice if we could remember we were given our talent from our Higher Power for a reason. That reason was NOT to bicker over who’s a pro, who’s NOT a pro, is 76 keys better than 61 keys but only 7/8 of 88 keys, who wants or doesn’t want to post their music, who has a legit musical track record, who’s a newbie on the Zone and not entitled to express an opinion, etc.
That reason was going out and making those who were NOT given the talent happy with what we WERE given. Sometimes I need to step back and look at how blessed I was to go through life with the ability to make music. I think many of us, INCLUDING myself, and particularly those who have played all their lives tend to sometimes fall into the “take it for granted” trap.
What do you think?
Lucky
Thank You Lucky ... The most successful people I know or who I have met, are humble and have class.
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#233251 - 04/27/08 12:36 PM
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Registered: 04/25/05
Posts: 14318
Loc: NW Florida
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Thanks all... While we are on the topic of 'contentment', let me ask you something. SHOULD a musician be 'content'? Few of the great ones ever seemed to be. There's something about the drive to keep getting better, to innovate, to create, that somehow seems to interfere with this nirvana. In many ways, I DO consider myself a discontented person. I am discontented with my arranger (it never does EVERYTHING I want it to do!), I am discontented with my playing (it sure could be better!), I am discontented with everything I have recorded (ditto!), I am discontented with my audiences (why can't they give Jimmy Buffett a rest, from time to time! )... It kind of makes me sound like a grouch, doesn't it? But it drives me. It drives me to work harder at controlling what I DO play, it drives me to practice every day, to reach for new ideas as much as I can, to try to grow and learn from everybody I work with, to try and make every performance, every session just a BIT better than the last one. And, of course, I am discontent because THAT doesn't always happen! But strangely, I am a very happy person, and consider myself the luckiest guy I know! At least on MY terms, I consider myself successful beyond my wildest dreams... So I am happy, and successful (in my eyes), but NOT 'content'. Doctor, is there something wrong with me...?
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#233254 - 04/27/08 02:27 PM
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Registered: 07/27/05
Posts: 10606
Loc: Cape Breton Island, Canada
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Originally posted by Diki: So, actually, I AM 'content', just not 'happy'..?
Thanks, Dr. Freud...
Now, put down the cigar Perhaps you are content with being "happy"...or happy with being "content"? Sheeeesh! I gotta get back to giggin'...waaaaay too much time on my hands. Sigmund
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#233255 - 04/27/08 02:45 PM
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Registered: 01/16/02
Posts: 14376
Loc: East Greenwich RI USA
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Originally posted by Diki: Thanks all...
While we are on the topic of 'contentment', let me ask you something.
SHOULD a musician be 'content'?
Few of the great ones ever seemed to be. There's something about the drive to keep getting better, to innovate, to create, that somehow seems to interfere with this nirvana.
In many ways, I DO consider myself a discontented person. I am discontented with my arranger (it never does EVERYTHING I want it to do!), I am discontented with my playing (it sure could be better!), I am discontented with everything I have recorded (ditto!), I am discontented with my audiences (why can't they give Jimmy Buffett a rest, from time to time! )...
It kind of makes me sound like a grouch, doesn't it?
But it drives me. It drives me to work harder at controlling what I DO play, it drives me to practice every day, to reach for new ideas as much as I can, to try to grow and learn from everybody I work with, to try and make every performance, every session just a BIT better than the last one. And, of course, I am discontent because THAT doesn't always happen!
But strangely, I am a very happy person, and consider myself the luckiest guy I know! At least on MY terms, I consider myself successful beyond my wildest dreams...
So I am happy, and successful (in my eyes), but NOT 'content'.
Doctor, is there something wrong with me...? oooops ... hit submit before I wrote anything ... Diki ... In case I was somewhere in your "rant" , apology accepted ... and if I weren't, WHY NOT !!! ..... (just bustin' ) Certainly one can be very happy without being content ... One can be happy with their current place in life, work, playing ability, whatever, but as you said, not being content is the driving force towards improvement ... That's all the philosophy from me for today ... t. [This message has been edited by tony mads usa (edited 04-27-2008).]
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#233256 - 04/28/08 09:36 AM
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Registered: 01/02/04
Posts: 7306
Loc: Lexington, Ky, USA
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Success in the music field, at least in the way I would define it, didn't happen because I couldn't make the commitment. I may not have had the talent, either.
I was hooked on hard-line jazz at an early age...way before I was good enough to even try playing it.
I met a lot of the jazz greats in LA in the early 60's and they had a hard way to go.
I liked communications, film-making, publishing and other things, too, and took the safe route.
"Suffering for my art" is a concept I understood but wasn't able to do.
Luckily, I was able to play for the cash when I needed it raising a family to support my corporate income and incorporate music into a lot of the projects I do in my company.
I sold out. In that respect, I wasn't successful.
I made the choice, and in my "heart of hearts" I regret it a little every day.
Russ
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#233259 - 04/28/08 03:35 PM
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Registered: 12/01/99
Posts: 10427
Loc: San Francisco Bay Area, CA, US...
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Originally posted by John DiLeo: I really enjoyed your website & songs. You are truly a Pro player & Vocalist. How long have you been playing?
John, thanks humbly for such kind words. Been playing piano & keyboards since I was 4 and first incorporated arranger keyboards into my act about ten years ago. Originally posted by John DiLeo:
Are you looking forward to a new Tyros 3 also? John, I assume from your post that you are ALREADY PLANNING to purchase a Tyros3, right? I myself am of course excited about what Tyros3 will bring, especially because I was hired by Yamaha Corp, thru an independent consulting firm, to discuss with them, in their early stages of Tyros3 development, my personal desires, needs, and wants in the Tyros2 follow up keyboard. That said, for now I remain quite content with my current setup (Tyros2) because it still continues to satisfy my gig requirements & playing style. That said, I plan to wait till Tyros3's specs are officially released by Yamaha Japan before making any kind of upgrade decision. btw: John, noticed your profile isn't filled out. If you don't mind sharing: curious what arr keyboard(s) you're currently playing and what Country/Region you reside. Welcome to the Synthzone John. Scott ------------------ Scott Yee Entertainment
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#233260 - 04/28/08 03:36 PM
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Registered: 12/08/02
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Loc: Forest Hill, MD USA
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I guess I must be successful. I've made hundreds of dollars playing music and entertaining people, I'm always happy, every day is a good day (some are better than others), I've never been content (but that's something different), I could retire (but I don't want to because I'm having too much fun), and after nearly a half-century I'm still married to the same woman. (Guess I must have done something right! ) If this is a measure of success, I suspect I've been somewhat successful. Oh, and the kids turned out OK too. Cheers, Gary Cheers, Gary ------------------ Travlin' Easy
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#233267 - 04/29/08 05:36 PM
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Registered: 04/25/05
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Loc: NW Florida
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Donny, both things are wrong, IMO. Heads down 'players', and heads up karaoke billed as 'live' music. If musical credibility is of any value whatsoever. If it's just the dollar, well, the audience likes dancing dogs, too, and spinning plates..! You aren't going to do THAT, too, are you? DJ-ing, karaoke, 'backing track' acts... All of these can be done by entertainers with NO playing skills at all. The trouble with moving into these areas, as you ARE a 'player', too, is that you place yourself in competition with others that have little in the way of a learning path, so a LOT more competition. At the top of your game now? That's good, but you put yourself on a level playing field with others with no skills at all, and you make it a lot harder on yourself than choosing to compete in a field that HAS to have skilled players, or the audience walks out... I don't know about your area, but down here, the majority of venues refuse to have 'backing track/DJ' acts, and want as much live music as they can get. To the point where I have to work hard to point to to the managers that, although we use artificial drums, very little else IS automated. Once they see us, they get the point, but 'entertainers' that just stand behind a keyboard and sing (or walk out in front of them) only play the Elks Lodges and VFWs, and the clubs and restaurants go out of their way to avoid this kind of act. I guess being in the 'backwards' South has it's advantages!
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#233271 - 04/29/08 06:48 PM
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Loc: NW Florida
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But is DJ-ing 'playing music'? Or is it 'playing a CD'? Because the second can be done by anyone with a CD player, and the first only by a well trained few. Look, I'm not trying to put down what you do, but simply to point out that as you use more and more entertainment tools that ANYBODY can do, eventually you put yourself in a position of FAR greater competition and struggle to keep jobs that, if they were kept 'musician only' would keep that food on the table for a lot longer. And then, there's what do YOU want to be? A DJ, or a musician. No amount of spin or self justification can make those the same thing. You can do BOTH, but they are NOT the same thing (or I really hope you don't think that!). The trouble I see is, that as you train up the audience to accept DJ-ing as part of a 'live musician' show, you are setting the venue up to go ALL DJ. If the audience no longer cares WHAT you do, as long as they are having a good time, you open the venue up to the LEAST expensive alternative that offers that alternative. You have probably heard a LOT of 'entertaining' DJ's. Do you really want to go toe to toe with them? They don't need to buy thousands of dollars worth of arrangers, in addition to the lights and sound system you have in common. They don't need to have external harmonizers, practice for hours, learn new tunes. I'm not saying this is where your show is, now. But as technology makes it possible for you to do HIS job, you start to get into getting HIS rate of pay. Again, I don't know your area's financial layout, but down here, the DJ's (other than radio and HUGE dance clubs) make LESS than musicians. Hence less food on the table for THER kids. If you are going to make a move into a market, why one that makes even LESS? You train the audience to blur the line between 'musician' and DJ, you blur the line about what the venue will be willing to pay you... But at least, if this ever happens, we will be able to look around and say we only had ourselves to blame... The DJ's certainly didn't learn how to play, did they?
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#233273 - 04/29/08 07:27 PM
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Registered: 04/25/05
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Loc: NW Florida
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Originally posted by Dnj: the floor is packed with dancers.......this is where YOU SHINE & makes him shrivel up into a corner because HE CANT DO THAT!
But that's where it falls apart... If he is packing the floor as well, and that's what the goal is, the process with which this is achieved is immaterial. The more you blur the line between your job and his, the more you blur the achievement when you DO pack the floor by playing music, rather than a CD... Let me put it another way... If you could pack the dance-floor WITHOUT ever playing a CD, why would you start? If you CAN'T without playing CD's, that's different. But that's not you, is it? I hope we are not just talking about 'break music'. We ALL do that, unless the gig has a DJ, but doing it DURING your show... Why do that if you CAN pack the floor already? That's simply diluting your achievement, IMO... Do what makes you comfortable. But I'm sorry, that's not for me...
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#233276 - 04/29/08 08:23 PM
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Registered: 04/25/05
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Loc: NW Florida
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I don't know about you, but I haven't heard a line dance that the arranger could NOT pull off, at least as well as it pulls off every other style you DO use...
What is there about 'Electric Slide' that makes it so hard to sing? OK, it's a girl singing it, but you probably cover other tunes that women HAVE sung (Fever, for instance... it didn't stop Elvis!). Adjust the key, off you go. Cha-Cha Slide, same thing...
Add in the fact that you can adjust the words for your particular party, and you have something that is BETTER than the CD.
This is what I don't get... Why play DJ when you CAN perform it live..? Don't kid yourself. Your audience doesn't think you sing as well as Ol' Blue Eyes, either (no offense, just the facts, ma'am!), but it doesn't stop you from performing THOSE songs... Why give the DJ an inch if you don't HAVE to?
My audience comes up to me and requests a hiphop number, I just tell them we'll play it on the break. They go away happy, I go home with my soul intact, everybody wins. Heck, they even request things I COULD do if only I knew them! Mostly, they understand when I tell them 'I don't know that song'. Then I play something else they DO like... everybody wins.
What do you do when they request a tune YOU don't know? Do you ALWAYS play the CD? Or are the times when you WILL simply say "I don't know that one?'
But if you start to feel obliged to play EVERY request they come up with, immediately, you simply open yourself to playing live less and less, and DJ-ing more and more. And eventually, just DJ-ing. And that IS a hard row to hoe to put food on the table...
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#233278 - 04/29/08 08:35 PM
Re: How do you define success...?
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Registered: 07/27/05
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Loc: Cape Breton Island, Canada
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Originally posted by Diki: Sorry, but if it's 'stupid but works', it IS stupid, but works!
Or, as my momma used to say 'Stupid is as stupid does'... then she gave me some good advice about chocolates!
Run, Ian, run! Don't eat chocolates. Diki...they'll give you pimples on your face. And don't believe everything they say in the movies...dump the Gump...don't be a chump. Ian PS...Sometimes I guess there just aren't enough rocks. [This message has been edited by ianmcnll (edited 04-29-2008).]
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#233279 - 05/01/08 07:38 AM
Re: How do you define success...?
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Registered: 07/01/03
Posts: 160
Loc: England
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Captain Russ How do you define success as it relates to your involvement in music? -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Hi, Russ, For me, 1.it was turning up for a booking at a wedding and the bride was crying her eyes out, because nothing had seemed to have gone right for her all day, the wedding photos was the last straw, her wedding train blowing in the wind, the congregation looking and talking to each other, looking down and adjusting her wedding dress, and so on. At the end of the evening she came up to me, put her arms around my neck and gave me a kiss I will never forget, and thanked me for a great evening.
2.When I was being paid £40 a booking, and a man put £20 in my top pocket. I said I’m being paid for this booking, he said it’s the best I’ve enjoyed myself for the last 10 years.
3. At a booking for the, Far Eastern Prisoner Of War Association, a man who seemed to have had a bit too much to drink, had been eye balling me a lot all evening, towards the end of the end of the evening he started to stager towards me, when two of his friends grabbed him, I said what had I done to upset him, they said he is only happy when your playing at our socials, and he turns down important meetings to be here, and he wants to know if he can live with you and your wife. [ he had worked as a prisoner of war, on the Bridge over the River Kwai]
4. The first year I moved in to Sheltered Housing, of about 40 flats, I said to my wife on New Years Eve, I suppose we are the only two left in the complex, she said no, there are some residents in their flat, on their own. I said go and knock on their door and tell them I’m taking my ARRANGER keyboard [Technics KN 2000] down to the lounge for a sing song, and they are quite welcome to join in. There was about seven of us singing our hearts out till about 1am New Years day. Last New Years Eve 2007, there were 40 people, residents and non residents; but now I don’t do the entertaining, I book the type of person who can wear a chicken hat, and get us up in a circle dancing, [and that’s not easy with 70,80,90 year olds.].
So many good memories.
I got my first booking when I was 14yrs old I’m now 75yrs old, and book music and entertainment once a month for elderly residents and non residents. They are not too happy with the entertainer who thinks we are brain dead, talks down to us, and thinks all we want to hear are songs from the first world war. Those residents that can’t get on the dance floor, perform the arm movements to the YMCA and similar songs in their chairs. There is one lovely lady 99 years young, and when I see her singing away to an entertainer I have booked, or to my own musical efforts, to me that’s success in music.
Russ, I’m sure us older generation, could swap great stories all night over a beverage or two, with out any derogatory remarks.
Interesting thread.
Best Wishes, Fred Wren.
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