Originally posted by TwoNuts:
Cash and gift cards tend to indirectly say "I don't know you well enough or care enough to invest my time and energy into giving you something of meaning". Kind regards,
Dennis L. Almond
aka...TwoNuts
Dennis how have you been?.....& no offense taken at all.....but in the same vein as you stated above....the day after Xmas when after you have taken you time & effort to buy a thoughtful gift and give it to someone only to have them RETURN it the next day which is shown buy the stores & malls Internet sales having the biggest and crowded store action on returns says it all....times have indeed changed, yes it's sad that holidays mean a fraction of what it once was. They accept your gift look at it but deep inside they cant wait to return it or worse give to someone else on their birthday or whatever in the future. I preferably like to take people to a nice dinner or give them restaurant gift cards to avoid the hurt of returns....a nice dinner at a fine dining restaurant cannot be returned, plus you get to enjoy the persons company for a while during the meal and reminisce & mostly it will be a time you all will always remember together.Ot if they go out to eat on your card they will enjoy the gift you gave them. Getting a sweater, sox or a set of screw drivers is not my idea of thoughtfulness. I would instead take a Big HUG and an "I Love You" which means more to me from someone then material things...I hope your feeling me Dennis? Holiday time is more a time for Good Cheer & good feelings with people you love and care for not a box of cheap Poppycock. Cherish your family & friends, & remember our soldiers abroad fighting for our freedom to live Free, be thankfull for all you have, & have a great holiday.
Ciao.
[This message has been edited by Dnj (edited 11-12-2008).]