Originally posted by Lucky2Bhere:
I’m interested to see if anyone else sees it as I do?
Lucky
I don't. Everything seems to be about how YOU see it, how YOU prefer things to be, what YOU want SZ to be about; in other words, YOU, YOU, YOU. The world in general and SZ in particular, has no obligation to conform to what YOU want. If certain types of postings intrude into your little escape from reality, then, as many others have already said, bypass it. I, for one, like the obituary notices. I look at the ones for musicians that I'm familiar with, the rest I bypass. I'm usually curious about personal details in their lives that I may otherwise not have known.
While it's true that every subject may not be entirely appropriate for a forum such as this, zero (0) responses to them will usually weed them out naturally. I think the problem that occurs with forums (fora) such as SZ is that (because of the intimate nature of it) some people tend to invest too much of their 'soul', psyche, whatever, into this cyber-community. As great as SZ is, it's still not a substitute for the real world. It's still (for the most part) a forum about musical instruments (to the extent that arrangers are musical instruments - had to throw that in
).
Soooo, my advice; stop trying to mold SZ into a "more perfect union" and just take the parts of it that, in the words of the great DNJ, "meets YOUR needs".
BTW, anybody I know die this weekend? Jaded minds want to know.
chas