"Honey, if I die, will you find another wife?"
No, of course not.
"Oh, I'd want you to. I'd want you to be happy."
Well, in that case, maybe I would.
"Honey, if I die and you find another wife, would you let her live here in our house?"
No, of course not.
"I'd want her to. No sense not enjoying our home."
In that case, maybe I would.
"Honey, if I die and your new wife moves into our house, would you give her my clothes and jewelry??
Of course not!
"Oh, I'd want you to. She may as well get some pleasure from those things."
In that case maybe I would.
"Honey, if I die, and your new wife moves into our house and uses my things, would you even give her my golf clubs?"
Of course not, she plays left-handed.


DonM