It takes work at it for two to come together and be as one flesh, as with all tasks worth doing, the work involved is certainly worth the end result.
Here's to you two, may you humbly and respectfully celebrate the union which is the reward for your works *together*!
--Mac
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"Keep listening. Never become so self-important that you can't listen to other players. Live cleanly....Do right....You can improve as a player by improving as a person. It's a duty we owe to ourselves." --John Coltrane
"You don't know what you like, you like what you know. In order to know what you like, you have to know everything." --Branford Marsalis