I really regret the loss of members here on the "zone". There are on-going problems with interperonal communications in general, and understanding what some of these are is helpful in at least explaining why some of the recent situations have developed.

I teach Interpersonal Communications at the University level at least one semester a year and also teach organizational communications and advise organizations on communications issues.

According to academic research, up to 17% of the population has cognitive problems affecting the individual's capacity to think and act rationally. As much as 9% of the population of the United States is in therapy
and/or taking medications for a variety of cognitive problems and other mental health issues.

While working through disagreements, etc. is admirable, when dealing with people with
cognitive problems, sometimes, you have to just walk away.

When you add the anonymity of and easy access to the web, the problems that surface are multiplied.

Sometimes the only thing that works is to feel sorry for the people with cognitive problems and just walk away. Continuing discussions with irrational, impaired people just compounds the irritation and creates resentment, hurt feelings, etc.

The vast majority of the folks on the zone are GREAT, but it is logical to assume that every once in a while, a person or persons not able to deal rationally with others will surface.

It is my wish that we all attempt to share information and experience in a respectful,
sharing manner. But, if we suspect that an individual involved is irrational or impaired, let's not let that negate why we're all here. A mutual love of music and a spirit of brotherhood and sharing is just too important.

We're important to each other, and need to be thankful for the chance to share music and life...TOGETHER!

You folks are really important to me (even you "Yammie" players-JUST KIDDING)!

Russ "old softy" Lay