People need to treat people how they, themselves want to be treated. Pretty simple. Quit worrying about how you will be perceived, and just act natural, not all fake and disguised.
Some people assemble their thoughts into candy coated little packages, before saying them. That is just as fake as a three dollar bill.
My use of the word girlified is not the best description of what I meant, the word pussified is a better choice. We have become a society of pussies. It's one thing to be kinder and gentler, it's another to be a clone of what some scholars think we should be. We are losing our individuality, slowly, but surely.......
Our society overanalyzes everything. Many things are really not so complicated.
But I'm sure most of you think I am the type of person discussed by the PhD's original post. That's OK.
(edited for spelin)
[This message has been edited by rdnzl (edited 01-22-2006).]