i sort of agree with rdnzl...our societies are becoming more afraid to say what they think,its not a matter of thinking before you speak, but rather saying what you ARE thinking, not what is expected to be heard or felt by the other person...russ,as a person with a phd in this area, surely you would agree that honesty and transparency in communication is far better than lies, or feigning compassion or empathy?
i personally believe that people can accept honesty of thought, they may not like it, but i think they appreciate it and respect the person that delivers it, as long as it is not in an arrogant or agressive tone....further, i believe the world would not have the problems it has if people and nations would be open with each other, it is through open and honest bi-lateral communication that people learn about each others differences...it shows up your weaknesses to the other person, who then thinks "hey this person isnt all that much different to me"...if everyone TRULY treats everyone else the way they liked to be treated, and not just short term because they want something, and follow that philosophy as a way of life, i reckon this would be a pretty good place to be..
dennis