The people you are playing for are NOT ruthless. They love your music.
Keep that in mind. Most of them can't wait to hear you. Don't punish the ones you are trying to help, just the ones that are so close minded that they can't see the great pleasure you give to their residents. Tread softly and just wait it out. Its the only way to get back in the door.
MEL
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