Let’s simplify this, ask any musician why he chose the instrument he plays and they will tell you that it does what it wants and was at the right price, ask him why he didn’t choose another type of instrument and he will tell you that they do not do what they want or were too expensive, there is no one size fits all and to get upset because someone didn’t choose the instrument you play is immature.
A number arranger players complain that pro musicians look down on arrangers and their players, then they do exactly the same and look down on other musicians that chose a different type of instrument to an arranger, however as I said in my first paragraph, there is no one size fits all, so just accept it like musicians have been doing for 100s of years. (Throwing your toys out the pram because someone has different needs to you is a pointless exercise)

Bill