....when he departed this wonderful world, he left her with more than a quarter-million in unpaid bills. He had a dozen credit cards that were in both names, but she never knew that, and they were all maxed out. He had no life insurance, no retirement, no bank account, and lived the high life right up till the end.
I know a lot of guys that pray for that scenario

. Guess it depends on the relationship you have with your spouse. Anyway, maybe that's the price they pay for outliving us. Wherever possible, women should always marry for money, not love. Much safer. Plus, it would inspire us guys to work harder to make more money.
Just an alternate POV.
chas